The 5 C’s – The Five “C” Qualities That A Boy MUST Have
what’s the buzz?
“The 5 C’s” – The Five “C” Qualities That A Boy MUST Have For Us To Crush
why we’re buzzing…
we’ve never been shallow minded when it comes to boys, we’ve just always been all about the personality, the energy, and the good stuff on the inside… basically we’re all about who someone really is. no really! but when girls say that, what does it really mean?
the 5 c’s…
we have five ‘c’ qualities a boy must have for us to be crushing…

1. confident...

confident, not cocky, is huuuuuge for us. boys who believe in themselves are always going to treat you better than someone who is insecure, because they don't need to try to bring other people down. confident boys like confident girls, so confident boys like you when you embrace who you are. want to find a boy who you will be your best self around? confidence is key.
confidence is for sure a must have for jenna. she's really outgoing and sure of herself, so she needs a boy who can hold his own next to her.
2. clever...
it takes intelligence and whit to be clever. clever boys are interesting, they make you laugh, they make you think, they can carry on a conversation, and most of all, they keep you on your toes.
this one really hooks krissie. she totally gets butterflies when guys use clever words and phrases haha, she has this "thing" about vocabulary. but also, clever guys bring her out of her shell. she's reallllly shy, but when guys are witty and charming, she may actually talk to a boy.

3. cute...
ok, ok, that sounds shallow at first haha, but we mean "cute to us". everyone has different tastes, we're all attracted to different types of people, but we think it's totally a must have to think someone is adorable.... for who they are. and it's not just physical, it's the way someone walks, talks, smiles, thinks, acts, and looks all put together that makes them "cute".
and flip it around... would you really want to be with someone who didn't think you are adorable? i guess we think of it like this... for every person in the world, there is someone else out there who thinks they are beautiful, gorgeous, hot, sexy, whatever, so if you don't think someone is all of those things, you could be holding them back from the person who does think all those amazing things about them.
moral of the story... don't be stingy haha :)
4. chivalrous...

everyone automatically thinks of boys opening doors and carrying books when they hear this, but here are the actual definitions of "chivalrous":
- 1. having the qualities of chivalry, as courage, courtesy, and loyalty
- 2. considerate and courteous to women; gallant.
- 3. gracious and honorable toward an enemy, especially a defeated one, and toward the weak or poor.
so to sum it all up, a chivalrous boy will treat you with respect, treat other women with respect, and treat people in general with respect. haha so now you seeeeeeee. chivalry is major.
5. creative...
whether it's art, music, building things, performing, writing... creative people are passionate. you have to be passionate to create things, to develop things, to commit to dreams, hobbies, ideas, etc. that passion is an energy that creative people are filled with.
creative boys are passionate about their dreams, their lives, and that means they are more passionate about the girl they have a crush on ;).


this is sooo true ! i love this ! alot of girls should read this because alot of girls look for the wrong things in guys and then be all “in love” with someone who was a jerrrrk from the begining ! or sometimes guys change so they get so use to being with that one guy and forget that the 5 C’s should always be relevant no matter how long you’ve been with a person! so this is great ! <3 it!
totally – we love what you said about “no matter how long you’ve been with a person” – we SO agree with that. people tend to get into relationships and take each other for granted, or get way too comfortable. people should be amazing to each other no matter how long they are together, and yup – the 5 C’s should always be relevant!